tv/ movies: Born Nov 22, 1958, She starred in this movie: Trading Places - 1983?

Questions

"If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will avoid -------------------- of sorrow."- Chinese Proverb?

"If you aren't fired with ----------, you will be fired with enthusiasm."- Vince Lombardi?

"If you become a ---------, you don't change, everyone else does."- Kirk Douglas?

"If you believe that dreams can come true, be prepared for the occasional ---------- too."- French Proverb?

"If you can count your money, you don't have a --------------."- J. Paul Getty?